I have been doing some thing and study on really what is a church suppose to be.
I have been in the church all my life. I have seen God in many different prespectives. I was raised in the Church of God, Cleveland Assembly. My Dad preached in a lot of independent churches and even pastored a few that held to mainline, conserative holiness tradition. I saw how the two types of churches operated. They had some similarites, but also some major differences. I became acustom to the Church of God. They seemed to be more family oriented. The pentecostal churches put a greater emphasis on the gifts of the Spirit and physical manifestations.
Then when I became a teenager, I went to a southern Baptist High School for one year. That was long enough for me. They seemed to be more ridged in there worship style. I finished my high school years at a Pentecostal High School and seen another world of Pentecostals. They were not of the holiness doctrine. What the holiness people would call worldly, beacause of there dress code.
Each one of these churches had there own tradition. When I started preaching, you name I've proably been to many mainline denomations. I have preached in churches from Baptist and Methodist to Holiness and Apostolic. However in all my years of being in church, I find church is define differently by all these labels.
When we go to church, the first thing on our mind ought to be worship. It should be a place to commune with God and fellow believers. It should be a place were everyone feels accepted. However, it should be a place that still has the convicting power in the service. The service should be uplifting. God is a good who encourages his people. He does not want his people to come to church and leave feeling worse.
When you come to church have a praise on your lips. Have joy in your heart. Don't let situations hinder your relationship with God.
STeve